Tales of Coming Home by U.S. Military Family Members, Government Officials, and Civilians in a new MAMF Anthology–Home: It’s Complicated

Be it ever so humble, there’s no place like home– John Howard Payne (Home Sweet Home)

In her preface to  HOME: It’s Complicated, Editor Circe Olson Woessner makes clear that with all its complexities and nuances, home might be complicated, but it’s always home. That message is reinforced over and over in each of these 50-some moving, personal stories–home is not a place but a feeling in a place with family and the people you love.

Anyone who has spent time in the military or government service has experienced frequent relocations to all parts of the country and around the world. They have become used to the question, “Where are you from?”

The answer? Where–When? These authors have all experienced returning to a birthplace, a school, an installation, or a former apartment or house and finding it closed, destroyed, modified beyond recognition, or occupied by strangers, and their stories tell how they felt about their return: Sentimental. Disappointed. Nostalgic. Angry. Homesick. Or all of the above.

But they all come to the same conclusion. Home is where you are with family or people who seem like family. Whether in Germany or Texas, Japan or California, home is not so much where I came from, but possibly, where I’ll be going–so long as I’m with family.

Blogger and memoirist Connie Kinsey, the museum’s Writer-in-Residence, wrote nine essays and co-edited the anthology. As a former military “brat” who has finally rooted herself in West Virginia, Home: It’s Complicated was her brainchild, as she, too, has long struggled with the concept of  “where is home.” The theme also resonates with the forty-seven contributors hailing from four continents, each bringing a unique perspective on the concept of home. In all, there are 604 mentions of “home” in Home: It’s Complicated.

Home: It’s Complicated is now available through Amazon and is a fitting accompaniment to earlier MAMF anthologies–Schooling with Uncle Sam and Host Nation Hospitality, both also available through Amazon. Connie Kinsey blogs at http://wvfurandroot.com.